6 Keys to a good relationship: friendship, freedom, honesty, trust, understanding, and communication.
Friendship- lovers shouldn't be bonded only through intimacy but also of friendship. Realizing that its also best to enjoy company as friends where both of you could share each others joys and sorrows, helping through thick and thin, and never letting go when the other is shortly behind..theirs always this lending hand ready to take a grip of a falling hand. When you treat each other as friends you will be more trusting with disclosing up secrets thus trust and faith to each other is strengthened.
Freedom- Love is never a prison of lovers rather a feeling that each other is set free to choose their true love. Giving one's relationship with enough freedom would deepen much more than anything else your respect for one's interests.
Honesty- As the famous quotation says, ''Honesty is the best policy'', indeed true as applied to all kinds of relationships. When both of the couples is honest to each other there's no fear and uncertainties of any break ups and quarrels.
Trust- A woman once asked which does come first? love or trust? Its right to say that its trust that harvests love. Without it, you can never find someone worthy of any love at all. Aside from that fact, trust is also the first task we human have to achieve in our first stage of life. It couldn't be skipped, because if so, great conflicts would arise later in life that definitely affects the handling of certain relationships.
Understanding- In a relationship there's always someone whose good enough to understand. Understanding is not being martyr and tolerating any mischievous acts of the other but its about giving the benefit of the doubt and hearing the others side to be establish fairness and harmony. If both of the couples doesn't like to understand, no relationship is good enough for them to stay longer for it will cause them to tear their interest and mutual perception of things.
Communication- Maybe among all the element, i think communication should be the first to exist in order for the other factors to follow. Its not only enough to communicate, but taking into consideration its important elements should count most for a more successful relationship. So, its not only speaking and hearing but there's this comprehension, good channeling, delivering and just perception and obtaining of message from the one who send it. hen barriers are playing tricks in the middle, its best to counteract it with proper, good and sweet ways of communication.
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