Why does some Women choose to Stay Single even though its already a nice time of starting A good One?

 

Though puppy love, crazy infatuation and liking stuffs same as these usually pop out in  High school, still i never found myself getting with a boy beside me walking while holding hands together along the streets of our place..i thought this act might only become the talk of the town  just like Angie and brad.. and it sounds erratic and overly  for me. My friends even frightened me of getting easily impregnated soon in College out of a lovers shock scenario for the reason that i haven't yet taken even by a  a single guy for a date or what?

Then i tell to myself its never a loss if not having a man on those years rather i should be screaming for boys if at the age of 25 i still don't search one...oh no! a disaster!...there might be wrong in me perhaps..how could i be an NBSB UNTIL NOW?

So, when i get done with College things, handed me my diploma and passed the board with flying colors yet, seems my love life is sinking too deep. Sometimes i feel so frustrated but not desperate of course. Least of  My friends would often say..''hey your not getting any younger..be into it..or else you'll end up starving for it and there's no more stock available anymore for you if you'll have it later'' uh..this is nerve wrecking..i hate you friends for it! ha ha. Mostly utter things which sound so flowery to my ears,'' don't get sad about it, your still young.. there's more guys out there..maybe the right one hasn't yet to come. oh..whats this..? an angel and devil fighting just to get me..another hahaha!...

Are you going to be like her?

 i  bet you will not...its not worth of our frustration, tears and desperate moves my dear fellas....

instead

be like her...free ..happy...and with great optimism that she's not yet behind from everyone else in  the game called love...

BUT WHATEVER IT IS I HAVE MY OWN CONVICTION AND ITS HOPEFUL AS THE SUN SHINNING FOR ME!

Never hurry things up like its the last days of your life..as long as you know loving..chances are still big!

Always ask God's guidance in the search for Mr. Guy..

Don't be too much choosy...and picky...you will end up a looser and nothing to bring home in the end..

so here's some points why some girls and particularly me choose to stay single

The single life is not only appealing to men. Historically, women have not had access to the same opportunities as men, which encouraged them to commit just to make a better life for themselves. Today, women have more options than ever, and among those options is the right to stay single, which comes with a variety of perks worthy of consideration.

• career
• independence
• solitude
• spontaneity
• social opportunities
• economic benefits
• fear
• caution
• happiness
• less negative impact on self image

Among all the listed  points above, for me career, solitude, independence and above most my  family  are the factors that that hold me back from getting into commitments with relationship of the opposite sex..I have been concerned  much more on prioritization of important things though i find relationship is really indeed an essential aspect of our dynamics as human being...still i figure it as something that may affect  the other factors. And it just happened that i choose to prioritize more my career and family. So, enjoying friends company has been my proxy from all the sentiments of being loveless, at least there are few who share their little time spending coffee or tea hours  with them.

As I've said,  its all in ourselves...we all have choices...and choosing the best decision on these.. matters most.

You could be loveless, untied, unconnected, free, single, available and  all ready to mingle ...or things like these..even  before and  until now...but it doesn't mean your a looser...an ugly girl,  fat chick,   moody  lad or  a crazy unpredictable woman...You just have to make other things to get into their proper places before you do your own thing on love...its also nice to know that out there.. God is still preparing the Mr. Guy of your life to be totally ready with commitments. So by the time both of you meet...time will never be as waste as trashes you could have dunked  on your cans by the time you hurry up things. and i just don't like it! Hope you too... :D

Marz