Getting self ready! What if's .... having a glance of sugar and spice of the heart!

What if someone that u just met has a heart on you? and it happened that you like him too?


Of course i will feel so red with this fact. Maybe i cant sleep for a couple of days until it sinks deep in to my bones. Its nice to know that the one i fancied for is feeling the same way towards me. Its s great mutually heaven thing. Isn't it?


What if he makes the move of flirting on you? you know guys flirt too?


Hahahaha,,,sounds so nice to hear. Well, since i like the guy whose flirting on me,,,so i think i should entertain the fact that he is doing that sweet thing on me and i might flirt too..ooops not that what you thought of- the  malicious, sexy moves..uh.uh..not those but just flirt some ones...you know,,just a bit of body language indicating liking mood just as spending time with him through a talk with a cup of coffee or sharing unknown things between us..you know stuffs like these..in other words sharing moments with him in the purpose of testing compatibility and interest..


What if he asks you to be her girl friend though you've just known both only for a couple of weeks ago..would you give your yes?


Oh! this is a bit dilemma for me. How could i say no the the person i like in the first place knowing that he likes me too... on the other hand, how could i compromise my reserved image and precious love for the one though i like so much but has not yet been too known to me..still a bit stranger .


Well, i guess I'll turn down his request though its not so easy and ask him if we could we still have some more time for getting to know each other before i say yes to him. It depends on him if he's too fast and impatient for it then he could leave and find other girls to get just easily. I just don't happen to be his ordinary girl that he could easily sweep off my feet. I can resist the like..as long as its still not love yet..and it would be hard.


Will you entertain a couple of suitor's? or select only those that have the chances?




I remember one time a friend and a classmate whom i never realize to be liking me, asked me if he could he pursue my yes to be his girlfriend?... much to my surprise for it and feeling nothing special on him,, with no thinking twice, i turned down his request and explained that it will be better if we would remain as friends because i don't like him to be my boy friend.




I think it would be better to give no false hope to those guys out there who want to get the yeses of their fancied girls. So if ever i got plenty in line,, before they could get me into a date or what...i should frankly tell them  in the first place whether they will have the chance or not. Though its not easy to break up the good intentions of these guys but its too cruel too if you'll have them going around your hands yet in the end of the game there's no yes for them. I don't believe that though you don't like him in the first meeting then later on you will turn out  to be liking him in the succeeding days...of course we, women can sense which men do we feel intensely more liking or loving to.




And if ever there's really what we call destined people or soul mates, then no matter how many times you put down that guy who is supposedly your soul mate... he will still come back in your life and there's that mystery working on when you will get to realize that he's someone  missing in your life. And time to give your precious yes!